Revisiting some unpublished photos from 3 years ago at the Indian wedding. The then crying bride is now a happy mother of a cute baby girl.
Showing posts with label India. Show all posts
Showing posts with label India. Show all posts
Wednesday, January 21, 2015
Monday, January 14, 2013
Bucharest Artist Photographer Salon 2013
Saturday at F64 in Bucharest we opened Salonul Artiștilor Fotografi din București (Bucharest Artist Photographer Salon), the third edition. It will stay there for a couple of weeks, so you can see our pictures there - 32 photographers are represented.
As you can see in the re-enactment above (pic made by Carmen), my picture is a moment from an Indian wedding, shoot last year in Kolkata when my friend got married (I only hope his wife, Anwesha, is not mad at me for the selection).
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Triptych sneak preview
A preview of my pictures for the Triptych photo exhibition to be opened in a few weeks. Called Fishmongers is a series of street photos from my Indian trip.
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Indian wedding: the feet washing
The very last tradition in the Indian wedding I witnessed, just before the husband and wife are allowed together for the first time it was the ceremony where she had to was his feet. In their culture feet are considered unclean, and doing this is the sign of great humility. A good part of the groom's family assisted.
And with this the wedding ceremonies ended, it was the time for the photographer to go away :)
Indian wedding: the big night
Finally, two days after ceremony (one of which they were not allowed to even see each other) and after the last reception, the bride and the groom had their first night together. In a special room, with a richly decorated bed. But before that, she was received by her father-in-law.
Indian wedding: the session
If in the western world the "official" photo session with the bride and the groom is a must and the bride may kill the photographer if she doesn't get her pictures with the bridal dress, I discovered that some Indian brides are not the same, in this case she didn't want photos... and made it in the most Indian way, not saying "no" but "yes" and then avoiding it in various ways.
In fact this is the thing that annoyed me the most in my Indian experience, people there won't say you a firm "no", they consider it disrespectful, they will say "yes", "maybe", "later" or "we'll see" and then try to do everything to avoid it. They don't know this is even more disrespectful for us, Westerners, who prefer a straight "yes" or "no" and then keeping your word. This may be the cause for some of our cultural conflicts.
So, back to the topic: we had the "official" photo session planned for a full morning in a park, then it was moved for something short in the evening at the temple, then for something even shorter at house on the roof, then it didn't happen, all we did was a few shoots at the reception place.
Indian wedding: the reception
The groom's reception was like the bride's reception: people come, eat and go, leaving the place open for the next round of guests to come, eat and go... This allowed for a high turnover of guests... if I recall correctly they were expecting around 800 people.
Indian wedding: the shine
Is a long process for the bride to make herself beautiful but the result is showing, after all the preparations (make-up, hair style, clothes, jewelry) she was really shining.
Indian wedding: beautification
The ceremony happened to the bride's home so it and the reception after was organised by her family. Two days later it was followed by another reception, this time at the groom's place, organized by his family. Here's the bride making herself beautiful for the reception:
Indian wedding: the bargain
The groom returned home with the bride, here he encountered another expected "surprise": the door bas blocked by the women inside, who demanded a price to allow him inside with the wife. And we had a funny part: they asked for "10" so he paid 10 rupies, which is practically nothing, compared with 10 thousands, as they intended. Careful with the words, girls!
Indian wedding: the arrival
After the wedding, arriving at the groom's house, another thing happened: a white cloth was put on the stairs at the entrance with a plate holding red paint. The bride stepped on the paint and then walked inside, leaving some red tracks of her feet. The groom followed on her tracks.
Indian wedding: the cry
I was warned this is going to happen and be ready with my camera to capture it, but I swear it was genuine: leaving the parent's house the bride started to cry, it was an authentic cry and it made me feel a bit bad, like a vulture for capturing it... but I remembered I am a photographer and kept shooting.
Indian wedding: the departure
I said there are a lot of blessings in an Indian wedding, the morning after the ceremony held another round (in fact two rounds!) of them at the bride's house, before she left, going for the groom's place. Some tears started to show...
Indian wedding: the sleepover
There is also an unexpected tradition in an Indian (Bengali) wedding: after the ceremony is over, the couple is not left together and alone (in fact, they are not let alone for a couple more days). Until the morning they will stay awake at the ceremony place together with their close friends. We added a bit of modernity into it and spent the time playing charades and Mafia.
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
Indian wedding: the feeding
With the ceremony over (around midnight) people went to eat and unlike the Romanian weddings I know, is not an all-night-long party, people just go to the reception place, eat then go away, leaving the space for others to come and eat.
One of the last to have food that night is the new couple, and while I don't think is part of the tradition, I found cute seeing how she is feeding him :) But is not the end, there are things to come...
Indian wedding: the red paint
A final step of the ceremony is when red paint is put on the bride's forehead (and nose, and top of the head, and hair). Now it is done, they are married, ceremony is over, time to party!
Indian wedding: the fire
The fire has an important role during the wedding ceremony: someone makes a fire, then the groom stand behind the bride, they put some food (cereals I believe) into the fire, they circle around the fire and repeat the operation a few time. It looks like a purification of sorts.
Indian wedding: the law
At some point of the religious ceremony someone from the authorities showed-up for the legal part of the marriage, he had the parts, bride, groom and fathers, sign the papers. Unlike the European weddings I saw before, the legal part happened at the same time and in the same place with the religious part and the authorities came to the ceremony instead of bride and groom going to the city hall.
Indian wedding: the ceremony
After the garland exchange the bride and the groom stepped in the area previously delimited by the priest. I don't know exactly what happened since they were talking bengali, which I don't understand a word, but I believe there were even more blessings, this time made by the priest. It took a long while.
Indian wedding: garland exchange
A first step of the official ceremony was the garland exchange: both the groom and the bride were wearing a flower garland and when they first meet they exchanged those garlands three times. Then they kept wearing the garlands until the end.
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